Should You Travel?
With Elliot & Stella
Would travelling help your mental health?
Stella - I haven’t done much travelling, but I believe it would. Like meeting new people, and seeing new things—it forces you to be open to new experiences, helps you learn what life is like for other people, understand other people from different cultures.
Elliot - Yeah, I get that. From my experience, going overseas really opened my eyes. Like, when I went to Japan, it wasn’t just fun—it made me see how different people live. They’re so polite and helpful there. It kind of makes you reflect on yourself and how different society is from where you live.
I can imagine. That sounds so cool. For me, I’ve mostly just gone on small trips nearby. So, I don’t know what it’s like to experience all those big cultural differences.
Yeah, but even small trips can do that in a way. Like, you don’t have to go halfway across the world to experience something new. Sometimes just getting out of your bubble is enough.
True. Even going somewhere a few hours away feels different—it shakes up your routine. I guess that’s what matters most.
Can You Have Real Adventures Without Travelling?
Yes, definitely. Adventures are all about mindset and being willing to do something different, and challenge yourself. I mean, it depends on what you’re after. You don’t have to take a 12-hour flight to experience something cool. Even going somewhere close can feel fresh.
Totally. When I went to a different state, I noticed how different people were just a few hours away. It’s weird because it’s the same country, but the vibe is so different. You’d think I went way further than I did.
Yeah, and sometimes, just exploring your city can feel like an adventure. Like finding a new café or walking a trail you’ve never been on, or doing something different like a mid-winter ocean dunk.
Right? It’s more about mindset than distance. But, yeah, I guess if you’re after things like new languages or different cultures, you’d probably want to go further.
Yeah, for sure. But if you can’t afford it, there’s still so much to do nearby.
Staycations: Are They Worth It?
What about staycations? Like, going somewhere that’s just an hour or two from where you live?
I think they’re underrated. I have not been to many, but I can see how it would feel like a break. You’re in “holiday mode,” you know?
Yeah, same. But I stay in places not far from home more frequently, compared to going on big trips, whether that’s near the beach or in the hills. It wasn’t fancy, but it felt like such a getaway. You don’t need to be in a five-star resort to have a good time.
Exactly. It’s about changing your environment, even if it’s just a bit. And honestly, those small trips can be way less stressful than a big overseas holiday.
True. Plus, it’s cheaper, so it’s more doable for people who can’t splurge on big trips.
Is Traveling a Waste of Money?
I see both sides, but I think it’s about what matters to you. Like, a holiday might not last forever, but the memories do, as does the change in mindset and personal growth. You can’t put a price on that.
Yeah, that’s what I have heard too. Its all about the experiences and memories. But on the otherhand. "Why spend so much when it’s gone in a week?" I get where those indivduals perspectives are coming from.
I guess it depends on your priorities. Some people would rather have a physical thing, and others value the experience. For me, I’d probably pick a holiday—it’s more exciting.
Same here. And honestly, it gives you something to look forward to. That’s part of the fun.
Is It Worth Planning a Trip, or Just Go with the Flow?
What about planning? Do you think holidays need to be planned out, or is it better to just wing it?
Bit of both, I reckon. Like, you need to sort out the big stuff—flights, accommodation—but once you’re there, it’s fun to just go with the flow. Some of the best moments come from random decisions When we did a trip a while back, we had a loose plan, but we didn’t stick to it every day. Some days we’d just chill, and other days we’d decide, "Let’s go check out this place.".
Exactly. Overplanning can suck the fun out of it. It’s nice to have some structure but still leave room for surprises.
Should You Travel at Least Once in Your Life?
Definitely. Even if it’s just a small trip, it’s worth it. You get to see the world in a new way and break out of your daily routine. Even those small changes can make life feel bigger. And honestly, it reminds you that there’s more out there than your everyday bubble.
Yeah, I agree. But I get that it’s not for everyone. Like, my grandparents never travelled, and they were totally fine about it. Some people might feel completely content where they are, especially if they’ve built a life they love. For me, travelling adds so much, but I get why others might not feel the same pull.
True. But I feel like if I never travelled, I’d regret it. There’s just so much out there to see. It’s not just about the big things either—it’s the small, unexpected moments that make it special. Even just stumbling upon a hidden café or a quiet beach can leave a lasting memory.
Same. And you don’t have to do it in a super fancy way. Even if you don’t go far, you can find creative ways to travel that are just as exciting.
Totally. It’s not about how much you spend—it’s about the experience. It just gives you a fresh perspective on life.